He asked me to eat his ass

Wait, was my boyfriend gay?

Hi Lovers,

Do you think I was over reacting?

It was one of those evenings I spent with K. We were making out, man knows I enjoy foreplay and we don't joke with that.

Story for another day

Then all of he sudden he stopped, looked at me and said “Babe can you lick my butt hole and finger it?”

Am I missing something here bros?

Before I met K, I had tried some crazy things but my butthole was always reserved because the first time I attempted Anal I stopped at the tip. 😏. K loved to explore and I let him eat my ass but him I didn't know a brother wanted it too.

Then the thoughts started flooding my head. Was he Gay or Bi? Why would he want his ass eaten?

As a person who has always had a knack for trying new things. I asked him to wash up and decided to give it a try.

The way he moaned 🥵 when my tongue and fingers found it's way into his butthole was out of this world. The sex felt a lot better but…who was this man?

I was already giving K the side eye.

Sounds gay to you too right?

So I thought until I started asking my friends questions in addition to my other research and I found out the shocking truth.

The prostate i.e men's G spot is found 2 inches inside the rectum (butthole).

What? So K wasn't gay afterall, he was just a man who knew what he wanted and was exploring it.

And the other truth is that most men who have tried this may enjoy it but are always scared to mention it because it felt like a gay trait. While others may be ashamed of trying it because it feels emasculating.

I can't say I know it all… But when it comes to pleasure one thing I've discovered is that, it's subjective and is different for everyone.

I'm glad to say I've learnt from my mistakes and everyday I'm learning.

Are you learning from your past mistakes?

Ladies: Have you ever experienced this and how did you feel?

Gents: Have you explored this? If Yes, how do you feel about it and if No: why?

Xoxo

Lara.

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